Trading Places with Beth Gainer

Beth Gainer was diagnosed at 39 with breast cancer. She is now a long-term survivor of 23 years. Beth is a writer and artist. In her spare time, she enjoys being with her family and friends, as well as reading, working out at the gym, and going to museums.

Beth Gainer reads her essay “Trading Places” from Wildfire Magazine’s 2024 “Work & Career” issue. Beth’s piece is about cancer colliding with her work life. When her employer turned their back following her diagnosis, she took the scary leap into the unknown to change careers.

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A Story of Resilience and Transformation

Beth Gainer’s story is one of resilience, creativity, and a profound transformation. Diagnosed at 39 with Stage I hormone-positive breast cancer, Beth has channeled her experiences into art, writing, and advocacy. Beth’s story underscores the challenges of navigating a cancer diagnosis while maintaining a career. She candidly recounts her experiences in a workplace that initially supported her diagnosis but later became a source of stress and betrayal. From enduring demotions to discriminatory remarks about her treatment needs, Beth’s professional life during cancer treatment was a microcosm of the systemic challenges many survivors face.

From Trauma to Transformation

In her essay “Trading Places” featured in Wildfire Magazine’s “Work and Career” issue, Beth vividly describes the emotional toll of battling breast cancer while working full-time. Initially embraced by colleagues with promises of support, the reality shifted once treatments began. She endured chemotherapy and radiation while meeting deadlines and maintaining high-quality work. Despite her efforts, she faced demotion and cold indifference, culminating in hurtful comments like, “You’re the reason our premiums have gone up.”

“I was shocked at how I was treated by people I once got along with so well,” Beth recalls. “The unfairness of it all was a constant source of disbelief.”

Seeking refuge and support, Beth connected with organizations like Gilda’s Club and eventually decided to pivot her career. A conversation with a college dean opened the door to teaching—a career that not only aligned with her values but also provided her with a supportive and empathetic work environment. “I wanted to live, not just exist,” Beth shares. “Teaching gave me the opportunity to make a difference and truly thrive.”

The Power of Art and Storytelling

Today, Beth is crafting a collection of poetry that speaks directly to those diagnosed and treated for breast cancer at a younger age, while also creating an evocative oil painting series titled Breast Cancer, Female, and Young. Through her Substack blog, The Art of Self Care, Beth shares highlights from her art series, as well as reflections on survivorship and healing. Beth’s artistic endeavors reflect her commitment to giving voice to young cancer survivors. Her painting series captures the emotions of young individuals grappling with breast cancer, illustrating their vulnerability and strength. Her poetry collection delves deeply into the nuanced feelings of being diagnosed and treated at a younger age, a phase often marked by dreams interrupted and plans uprooted.

“Being diagnosed young felt earth-shattering,” Beth says. “I thought I was healthy and doing everything right. Suddenly, I was faced with the fragility of life and the uncertainty of my future.”

Through her writing and art, Beth hopes to create connections and offer solace to those navigating similar paths. “Sharing our stories is integral to the experience of survivorship,” she explains. “It’s important for others to know they’re not alone.”

Life After Cancer: Finding Fulfillment

Now 23 years into survivorship, Beth reflects on the lessons learned and the blessings discovered. She’s a proud mother to her adopted daughter from China and cherishes her time spent with family, friends, and her creative pursuits. “Life is good,” she says with gratitude.

Beth’s story also serves as a reminder of the importance of advocacy and boundaries in the workplace. For those currently navigating work alongside a cancer diagnosis, Beth offers this advice: “Take it one day at a time. Don’t be afraid to speak up when something feels wrong. And remember, you’re not alone—there are resources and communities ready to support you.”

Looking Ahead

Beth continues to inspire through her art, writing, and advocacy. Her journey from workplace trauma to a fulfilling teaching career demonstrates the power of resilience and the importance of aligning one’s work with one’s passions. For Beth, living well is the best revenge—and she’s living proof of that adage.

To explore Beth’s work, visit her blog The Art of Self Care on Substack and stay tuned for her upcoming poetry collection.


Writing Prompt Inspired by Today’s Episode

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